Anonymous I; Nursing

Q1: How did you know about or come to BMU?

A: I got to know about BMU through my younger sister’s friend, who was already attending the school. At the time, we were searching for a university, and the way BMU presented itself online—with a serene and homely environment—caught our attention. That’s how I decided to come here.

Q2: Are you studying Nursing out of passion or purpose?

A: Honestly, I didn’t like Nursing at first. It wasn’t my original choice, but circumstances left me with no other option. However, by 200 Level, I began to appreciate the course. I discovered that Nursing is not just about medical treatment—it’s holistic care for the patient. Now, I see its true value and purpose.

Q3: What has been your hardest academic moment?

A: My most difficult time was 300 Level, first semester. During exams, I faced so many challenges that I cried often and even feared I would lose my admission. It was a painful season, but it taught me resilience.

Q4: How do you define failure and success as a student?

A: Success is not only about good grades. It also means growing spiritually, morally, and physically. For me, a successful student involves God in their academics and life. I learned this the hard way because earlier I tried doing everything on my own. Now I know that without God, true success is incomplete. Failure, on the other hand, is a journey without God’s involvement.

Q5: What do you think people misunderstand about Nursing?

A: Many people—including my own father—think Nursing is just about stress, hard work, and unpleasant duties. But to me, it is much more than that. Nursing is about compassion, advocacy, and caring for the needy. It’s not just a job; it’s a calling to serve humanity, especially those who can’t help themselves.

Q6: Where do you see yourself in 10 years?

A: I see myself as a nurse making impact, possibly traveling the world and using my skills to help the needy. God has been faithful to me, and I want to use my profession as a platform to bless and support people.

Q7: Why do you believe in God?

A: I had a turning point in 300 Level when I went through a very tough situation. It felt like everything was falling apart, but God pulled me out. That experience transformed my life and brought me closer to Him.

Q8: Do you think religion affects academics?

A: Religion itself doesn’t determine academic results; your personal effort does. But as a Christian, I know that faith strengthens me. Being part of fellowship programs gives me encouragement and spiritual energy that reflects in my academic life.

Q9: What has been your greatest struggle as a student?

A: The workload—especially presentations and the uncertainty of exams—is overwhelming. Sometimes lecturers pick questions from group presentations without revisiting the topics, leaving students under pressure. It’s stressful but teaches endurance.

Q10: What do lecturers misunderstand about students?

A: Some lecturers assume we are lazy or unserious. They don’t realize how much we actually struggle, especially when left to learn complicated topics from presentations. It feels like they underestimate our challenges.

Q11: If you were VC of BMU for a day, what would you do?

A: I would create a platform where students can freely share their struggles and suggestions. I admire how the former VC related with students like a father. I would follow that example—listening, guiding, and giving second chances rather than being too strict.

Q12: If you could change one thing about Nigeria’s education system, what would it be?

A: I would shift focus from too much theory to more practical learning. In Nigeria, it’s mostly writing and memorizing, unlike countries like the UK or US that emphasize hands-on training. Nursing has shown me the importance of practice, and I believe every field should benefit from that.

Q13: Have you made any mistakes as a student?

A: Yes. My biggest mistake was starting my academic journey without God. I thought I could do it on my own. That mindset led me into unnecessary struggles. Involving God has brought peace and clarity to my life.

Q14: Who has shaped your academic journey the most?

A: My friend Edem has been a huge source of encouragement since 100 Level. He always reminded me that I was smart and capable, even when I doubted myself. His support has been a strong motivation. He is my mentor in this school

Q15: What are your thoughts on relationships in school?

A: Relationships are not automatically a distraction. It depends on how you handle them. Some couples I know balance their academics, faith, and relationship very well. When Christ is at the center, it can even strengthen you.

Q15: Do you wish to find your Mr. Right in BMU?

A: Personally, I don’t hope to find “Mr. Right” in BMU, but I believe God’s timing is perfect.

Q17: Do you feel BMU is the right school for you?

A: To be honest, no. Sometimes I regret coming here because the school is small and everyone seems to know everyone’s business. It feels limiting at times. But I’ve decided to focus on graduating peacefully and moving forward.